Achieve more with the right RELATIONSHIPS
Relationship is one thing you must define in 2017. As my friend, Jordan, wrote, "We've probably all heard of the idea, "You become the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with." So for just for a second, let's assume that's true. What does that say about you?
How does the company you keep reflect on you?"
My mentor, Anthony Robbins, was once asked by his peers some years ago how he made $100 million while they all made $10 million that year. And he told he hanged out with Warren Buffet and other very rich billionaires.
Relationship matters!
My friend, Sheddy, went to Abuja. He hustled, but hustled smart. He walked with the right crowd and today he keeps getting bigger. My bosom friend, Samson Adah Paul, is one of the most sorted motivational speaker in Nigeria today. He got this secret of being with right crowd and have since exploded.
You must choose the type of people you want in your life. They must align with the future you want to be in. You must set values you expect from them. These values must includes for your family, friends, spouses and colleagues. You must set what you will receive and allow from them. They must serve diverse purpose in your life.
The shortest route to a successful future is the right relationships. You need positive people. You need less critics too. You must test all those that call themselves friends. A hanging out and gossiping friend should go. When you hang out, it should be discussion of making better today and the moro.
2016 relationship might have not work well, but you have 2017 to make new relationships, better some old ones. People who can't stay, let them go. Nothing will happen if they go.
You deserve those that will encourage you, so you will be motivated to do more than you are doing. Adex is major importer in Kano state. While talking with me yesterday, he told me, that his wife met him when he had nothing and his room was in shambles. She stuck to him and encouraged him. Today, he owes her much.
If only she had left him then, because he didn't measure to her definition of a good looking guy, who knows if she will have been watching him from afar now that he is rich. Like Adex's wife, you must recognize some people that because you came they become millionaire. These people will be indebted to you forever.
Keep becoming better by improving on your relationship.
How does the company you keep reflect on you?"
My mentor, Anthony Robbins, was once asked by his peers some years ago how he made $100 million while they all made $10 million that year. And he told he hanged out with Warren Buffet and other very rich billionaires.
Relationship matters!
My friend, Sheddy, went to Abuja. He hustled, but hustled smart. He walked with the right crowd and today he keeps getting bigger. My bosom friend, Samson Adah Paul, is one of the most sorted motivational speaker in Nigeria today. He got this secret of being with right crowd and have since exploded.
You must choose the type of people you want in your life. They must align with the future you want to be in. You must set values you expect from them. These values must includes for your family, friends, spouses and colleagues. You must set what you will receive and allow from them. They must serve diverse purpose in your life.
The shortest route to a successful future is the right relationships. You need positive people. You need less critics too. You must test all those that call themselves friends. A hanging out and gossiping friend should go. When you hang out, it should be discussion of making better today and the moro.
2016 relationship might have not work well, but you have 2017 to make new relationships, better some old ones. People who can't stay, let them go. Nothing will happen if they go.
You deserve those that will encourage you, so you will be motivated to do more than you are doing. Adex is major importer in Kano state. While talking with me yesterday, he told me, that his wife met him when he had nothing and his room was in shambles. She stuck to him and encouraged him. Today, he owes her much.
Keep becoming better by improving on your relationship.
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