Say something nice

Do you know it is very difficult to say something nice about someone always? The natural inclination is to criticize,complain about people. Criticizing people is the first and easiest thing to do. We criticize the president that he is too slow;when we talk about our bosses it is their annoying side we talk more of. Even our spouses and parents are not spared. I remember last December while commuting from Sagamu to Lagos in a public transport, we got stuck on the road just around MFM arena. I believe the discomfort and delay had made every one in the bus to start complaining and criticizing churches that has property along the express way. I was just learning this way of happy living then: rather than criticizing the church I told fellow passengers that I was tempted to criticize the church like them too but when I saw police vehicles around the church premises,there were also Federal Road Safety People. All of these are agencies in charge of traffic control. So if the church had not inform them they won't be there. The church does not have the facility and authority to control traffic rather they informed the necessary people. No matter how horrid someone is, there is always something good about them. Find that good side, and talk about it. Draw people attention to it. Do you know people will be angry that you are like this when you choose to say nice thing always about the next man? Nevertheless do not stop to flatter someone,something,somewhere. It shows how beautiful you are on the inside. It will pull the right people to you. When you learn to start saying good you will never be involve in gossiping,back-biting,always pointing defects and what's wrong and not actually saying how it could be better. It is better to keep quiet if you can't find something good to say. I implore you to do this just for one week and see!only say something nice about everything,everywhere,everyone,everyday!