Taking Charge Amidst Conflict
#: Conflict,challenges,war and battles are part of existence. No matter how gentle and not belligerent you are they seem to be at your door every day. They are either your kids flaunting your instruction; your family and friends seeking to control or an insecure boss who is threatened by your intelligent contribution. No one seems to be immune to them.
Like the 3rd law of motion states "to every action there is an equal and opposite reaction,"we have and are force to respond.
Below are ways to respond:
1. Coercion
It is the use of force. It involved the use of violence to get advantage. But the use of force makes you look bad and make people avoid you. It attracts more challenge at the end.
2. Deception
It involves the use of decoy,distraction to gain advantage. A lot of times the deceived will not be happy when they discovered. It could create a negative impression about you.
3. Persuasion
It is making the opposite person to do what you want because he wants to. He realises the advantage you want but give you because he agrees you deserve it! It is
gentle.
Take advantage.
Like the 3rd law of motion states "to every action there is an equal and opposite reaction,"we have and are force to respond.
Below are ways to respond:
1. Coercion
It is the use of force. It involved the use of violence to get advantage. But the use of force makes you look bad and make people avoid you. It attracts more challenge at the end.
2. Deception
It involves the use of decoy,distraction to gain advantage. A lot of times the deceived will not be happy when they discovered. It could create a negative impression about you.
3. Persuasion
It is making the opposite person to do what you want because he wants to. He realises the advantage you want but give you because he agrees you deserve it! It is
gentle.
Take advantage.
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